thank you so much for this incredibly helpful information! it's wonderfully detailed and a lot to work with, which i definitely love.

ok, so: radical thought but could i potentially look at kylo getting a gym job for the week and then possibly get in to being a bouncer part-time on weekends etc for some extra cash and then take him that route gradually? he is going to be looking to change apartments soon, looking for somewhere bigger and a bit pricier, so finding ways to make a little extra cash certainly feels feasible for him right now.

if not, this is also cool but i figure it doesn't hurt to ask.

otherwise, i'm going to percolate on the rest of this and shall return if i have any extra questions.